Not sure what to do...

I am delivering my baby girl via c section on June 13th and nobody has offered to throw me a baby shower yet. My family lives overseas and my husband's mother passed away. I asked my best friend to be my baby's godmother and she accepted it but didn't say anything about giving me a baby shower. She had 3 miscarriages and she is in a messy relationship now so I understand how sensitive she is when it comes to babies. Not sure what to do but I really want to have a baby shower.. This makes me feel lonely!