I am the other woman....

To the women who are "the other women" and think they will take away someone's husband you won't. I fell hard for a married man. He was everything I wanted and he told me he would divorce his wife. 2 years passed and the divorce never came and he kept telling me he would ask but never got the chance to. As holidays came I didn't spend them with him. And that killed me. Knowing he was with his wife. I fell pregnant and when I told him he was beyond pissed. He has been trying with his wife for years but nothing. I thought he would be happy but he was furious. I asked him if he would come to my first ultrasound and he said he would. I waited at the Drs but he texted me his wife wanted to have lunch so he wouldn't make it and to not bother sending pictures. I was there alone and it broke my heart but I loved this man. 2 months later and I had a miscarriage and I called him to come see me at the emergency room but he told me no that he was with his wife and hung up. I fell into a deep depression after that and I needed him more than ever. He would come see me and have sex and then he told me he was going to ask his wife for divorce and I was thrilled and finally started to be happy. He later came on to tell me that she was pregnant and I told him it was to keep him and not divorce him. Today was the day that we had plans to be with each other and have an unforgettable night but today his daughter was born. He texted me that he didn't want anything to do with me and he wouldn't leave his wife or baby girl that I was a mistake and only good for sex but nothing more and that he never was going to divorce his wife that he only told me that to make me feel better about being the side chick. It kills me to know I could have been the mother of his first born. But instead of being with ME tonight he was with his wife while she was giving birth. I'm so heartbroken. Ladies don't ever think that a married man will leave his wife and family because they won't. We're only good for sex in their eyes. I learned the hard way. Happy Valentine's Day 💔😢😔