Crap sex for both of us!

So due to work and general arguments we hang had sex in a few days. Tonight we did and it was shite! First off my vagina wasn't playing game so as dry and then being extremely difficult to have a orgasm with I'm going at my clit so that took fucking ages and then when that finally happened he had gone soft so tried to force it in anyways which obviously hurt so used lube to get him hard and just didn't finish with a bang. We both feel deflated and unsatisfied