My choice over my husbands

So u been over weight as long as I could rember I tried everything other the sun, so now I'm to the point of meeting up with a surgeon my husband is upset he doesn't want me doing it this way. He said I only need to loose like 40-50 lbs no more. Little do he know my boobs weighs 20 lol smh. Anyways I feel that this is the only offer left. I want a healthier life I wanna be able to have kids have healthy pregnancy and future with my family I feel my weight affects me in so many ways. Anyways today I'm going to meet with a bariatric surgeon since no success with bariatric nutritionist last two yrs. QUESTION AM I WRONG?