Is sex only once every 4-6 months normal?

Question

My girlfriend won't have sex with me. She claims she's interested in me and attracted to me but when I try to initiate she refuses or starts and argument. She says having sex only one time every 4-6 months is normal. I love her and I know sex isn't love but both sex and love are important. Is this true because it sounds hard to believe and I'm starting to have thoughts of leaving her due to this.

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Id argue there is no real "normal" for this kind of thing. Or rather, shes right, and this is her normal, which is fine. That being said, it sounds like it isnt yours, and thats perfectly fine too. You two may be sexually incompatible for each other. Try talking to her about it civally, before she rejects you!

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She could be asexual and afraid to admit it. Sit her down and communicate with her about your concerns, tell her that you don't want to put pressure on her but it's putting a strain on you, and work together to figure out your options.

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It depends on everyone's own individual libido. For someone with a low libido once every 4-6 months can be normal while people with higher libidos want it more often. Try to find different ways to get her in the mood and see if that helps. Not everyone is sexually compatible and though sex isn't everything in a relationship it is something to take into consideration.

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Every couple is different because every person is different. There's no such thing as normal! What's normal to one person isn't to another. What's important here is compatibility. Maybe you could meet somewhere in the middle? Say to her it doesn't matter what's normal or not, it's that I love you and want you.

Is sex only once every 4-6 months normal?

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