Is it normal to think about other boys?

Question

I love my boyfriend so much, but whenever I'm alone my mind starts to wonder and I think about other guys I know sexually, one is even his brother. I keep these sexual fantasies to myself but I feel so guilty about it. I don't love him any less afterwards, but I wonder if my sexual curiosity is detrimental? He's the only boy I've had sex with and I think that might be why I kind of want something different even if it is just all in my head. Any thoughts?

Answer

To be quite honest, it sounds like a fetish that you have which is completely normal and you've got nothing to be ashamed of. I use to have a profession in the sex industry as a cam model and discussed and role played alot of fetishes.

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As long as you don't act on it, you're not doing anything wrong.

Answer

As long as you never follow the thought and do anything you're thinking you're fine! There's this one guy I did sleep with, and holy crap he's fine I thin about him all the time but I'm happily in a relationship pregnant with baby #2 and he's married and just had his second baby. I'm attracted to him but not I treated in being with him.

Answer

I personally do not have that problem. I don't see anything wrong with it but if it really bugs you just dismiss the thoughts.

Is it normal to think about other boys?

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