Baby shower?

Kaylee
Has anyone started thinking about their baby shower yet? I have two groups of friends who said they would throw me separate parties. I almost wish they would wouldnt because i feel like nobody is going to come to come then to the "main" shower my family was planning for me! Maybe I can just have that one be strictly family?? This is way more stressful then I think it needs to be. How is everyone planning theirs?