First appointment

I just found out I'm pregnant this week, super excited!!! 😬😬😍
I called my midwife today and they don't want me to come in until I'm 10 weeks, so end of March.
I feel like that's a year away! I thought for sure I'd get in sooner. I remember my sis n law went in at 6 weeks with her doc. 
I feel like I'm going to be so paranoid and anxious until my appointment. 
Also I don't think I can keep it in and not tell my parents I'm pregnant for another month, but I'd rather wait until my first appointment. 
When did you have your first appointment? And also when did you tell your parents and in-laws you were pregnant?