Bridesmaid at 35-36 weeks?

Question

So my friend asked me today to be a bridesmaid in her wedding on September 30th. I am about 4weeks and 3 days along in my pregnancy which would land me right around October 25th as my EDD ( my first ultrasound is on March 17 so I don't know if my EDD is correct) The wedding is in another state so it would be about a 9 hour drive, most of which is through no mans land with no cell service. A flight would be about 1 1/2 hours but I've heard flying is a no no in your last trimester. I want to be there for my friend, but I feel as though I should decline since I am unsure if I will even be able to travel at that point. What do you ladies think?

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If she's a true friend she'll understand.  I completely agree with you.  You want to do what's best for your health, but you also want to do what's best for her.  How would she feel if last minute you had to back out and ruin wedding party plans?   I would just have an honest conversation with her about how much you want to, but of all the things you both need to consider.

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I would be nervous/uncomfortable travelling that late in my pregnancy but everyone is different! I would discuss with your OB maybe they will have some insight for you. If you feel you will be comfortable doing it then  I say go for it!

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I moved across the country wen I was 35 or 36 weeks pregnant. I had my doctor check to see if I was progressing any before I started the drive just to make sure I wasn't going to have a baby on the side of the road. She told me it was okay to fly but I ended up driving with my husband for the 6 days. The worst part about it was I was a little uncomfortable sitting that long. I also got compression socks (per my doctors orders) just to be safe and to help circulation. Just stop as often as you need to if its possible and walk around. I'd let your doctor know when it gets closer and you can talk about it when you know more of how you will be feeling at that time. Good luck! :)

Bridesmaid at 35-36 weeks?

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