Disagreement on finding out sex!
I've always said that I want the sex of my first-born to be a surprise. Now my hubs is saying he wants to find out, reasons being that "it'll be easier to plan". He is far from a planner. Then he says life is already full of surprises, doesn't think this should be one of them. I just disagree with him.
I'm adamant that I don't want to find out prior to birth but I do feel bad... He asked if he could just find out and keep it a secret. I said no and so I've been pulling the "I'm the one carrying and then birthing therefore I make the last call" card but I don't want him to feel like his feelings and wants don't matter... What to do?!
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