Partner is not vary understanding

Just to note my partner has always been vary understanding up until now So I've recently had a smear result that's came back abnormal biopsys were taken I was told no sex for 5 days in which I had him argueing with me that I don't want it anymore even after telling him what the nurse said. Five days later I find out I'm about 6 weeks pregnant after 2yrs and 2 months of trying and several tests later tonight I've had some bleeding/spotting that I went to out of hours for as I am so scared to lose the pregnancy first he argues over the time and I get told can't it wait till the morning than when we finally get home he complains that it was a waste of time because she had to refer me to early pregnancy unit. Then we go to bed just to have an arguement that I don't want sex . I usually always want it but how can I when all of a few hours ago I been to hospital worrid I was losing baby. Am I being selfish? Sorry if I've posted in the wrong room.