Am i overreacting?

Hello ladies! I need some advice. First of all I hate surprises and I hate the attention. I asked my mom and mother in law not to throw me a baby shower since I already have everything. This is my 2nd child and it's another boy. I've asked them kindly not to throw me one but this morning I saw them chatting and they changed the conversation as soon as I got there. I know they are planning something and it bothers me. I also understand that they are trying to be nice and they love me. But once again, I hate surprises... I hate the attention.... I already have everything... This is stressing me out especially since I've been telling everyone I don't want one. I also promised my husband I wouldn't have one. He wanted me to have a coed baby shower but since I didn't want one he respected my decision as long as we spoke to our parents and agreed that no one would throw me a baby shower. I told himi thought his mom and my mom were planning something and he got upset. Now I'm stressing out! Please be kind with your comments as I already feel stressed out ;)