He wants a baby?

Question

My boyfriend is 20 & I'll be 18 soon, but he wants a baby & that's okay to an extent, but I wanna graduate first. We're getting ready to move into our own place in a few weeks & I'm kinda scared with all this baby talk, but I dunno. I don't even know.

Answer

Just say no. At the least not yet. I had my baby at 19. Babies are hard work, very expensive, and just like they say, a baby changes EVERYTHING. You will see a side of your partner that you've never seen before and I'm not talking about the "awww, look at him being Daddy" part. I'm talking sleep deprived, stressed out, emotional, moody asshole side. Parenthood is NOT easy. At all. Please, do not get me wrong, I love my daughter more than anything in this world and I don't regret her for a single second, but at 19 when all my friends (the ones I still had cause 95% of them ditched me) went out, I wanted to be there with them, but I couldn't. Graduate high school, go to college, have a career ahead of you, and be financially stable before you start thinking about kids. Please.

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Oh my gosh, you should not feel this anxiety.... If you don't want one then say no!! And he needs to back off once you say no! DONT let him preassure you. You still haven't even graduated highschool yet. And maybe you were considering college? 
I started dating my man when I was 16 and he was 19. Within a couple years we both wanted a baby SOO badly, but I refrained myself for better timing. I finished highschool, graduated college, moved in together, got officially married, and THEN we took the leap of baby making when I was 22. I am soooo thankful we waited. It was hard, but way worth it. Now we are expecting our baby girl to arrive a week before our 7 year anniversary!

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If you don't want one, then don't have one! It's your body! And if you feel safer, go on birth control!

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