Ok so I am 20 years old and my husband and I have been married for almost 5 months. We had the discussion about kids shortly after we met because we both really want one. Now that we are married and have our apartment, we want to start trying to have a baby. Everyone that I have mentioned this to has been super negative. Saying things like, your husband won't be yours anymore or it makes your marriage so much harder. But these things are coming from people with 2-6 kids. I talked to my husband about it and he said that they are telling me these things from their experience. I feel like I have no one to talk to because none of my friends are married or even have a boyfriend. I really need someone that is my age and going through the same things that I can talk to 😢