My husband's cousin whom he does not talk to is a wreck. She gets in legal trouble a lot, can't hold down a job (even when offered by family members), does drugs, and has two kids with one on the way. Now I never knew she was pregnant because like I said, my husband dislikes her and has since they were kids. This girl was offered a job by their aunt because she whined so much that she didn't have money. She showed up twice then never did again. She got into a huge argument with my mother in law and said aunt because she posted something offensive about the military and military members. Of course my mother in law is a very very very proud marine mom and so she took it as the cousin personally attacking my husband since he's the only one in the family in the military. After all of this, I have never met her, I didn't participate in the argument except to say that if a family member told me something I posted hurt them, I'd apologize instead of creating a big dramatic argument and cutting ties with them. Now to the real point: while I've never met the cousin, I've met the cousin's mother which is my hubs aunt. She is nice enough, never had any issues. Today my "baby gaga" app posted that I was 11 weeks today and the aunt goes "Jessica is 20 weeks pregnant now."