Blowjob at age 16?

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My boyfriend asked me if I'd give him a BJ. I've never done anything like that, and I'm nervous. He said he'd wait if I'm not ready, and that he doesn't want to pressure me. I don't know what to do! Please help!

Accepted Answer

I think oral sex is something a little more intimate that you should share with a life mate, or at least a long term relationship. Kind of depends on how long yall have been together and how stable your relationship is. In my opinion that is, but you are old enough to make your own decisions! Either way make it for YOUR own happiness and not his or anyone else's.

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Tbh guys are dumbasses still around this age it's still un proven scientifically if they grow out of it lol but think about the worst case scenario: u do it, he tells his boys, they look at u differently, the girls they talked about it around call u a thot just cuz of one time. I'm not saying he's the type to tell but u never know. A guy is praised for getting it. A girl is torn down for giving it (food for thought)

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You do whatever you want honey. Tell him that the idea makes you nervous. Maybe he should go down on you first so that you could be more open to oral sex. If he's not willing to do that then don't do it for him if he's not returning the favor.

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I agree with Kaylie. Do it when you are ready..and don't be pressured. Also it should be a long term relationship not just anyone.

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Do it when you're ready

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My advice would be to wait. If you feel nervous then you're probably not ready. A day will come and you'll just know when you're ready. Just make sure you're comfortable and that you don't feel pressurised to do anything that you don't want to do. :-) x

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I think you should wait. 💜 but do whatever you feel is right make sure you trust him, make sure he respects you & make sure you are ready. Also educate yourself on sexually transmitted diseases!

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Make sure he won’t tell his friends u did it for him if things don’t work out. 16 year old guys can be very indiscreet just to seem cool.

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Its disgusting

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Honestly, wait till you're ready. I didn't till I was 19

Blowjob at age 16?

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