My vagina

I'm 16 years old and I enjoy masturbating and when I masturbate I watch porn sometimes but I've stated to notice my vagina isn't like theirs at all! It has thes flabby bits and their pink into a purple colour and I hate them I think my vaginas so ugly. This make sex for the first time even more scary. I'm afraid my boyfriend will be like eww that's gross no one else is like that because lads watch mega amounts of porn. Is there anyway other that surgery I can change this? Or is my vagina normal? Help! Another question is does sex hurt the first time? and is bleeding the first time you have sex normal? or will lads find that gross to?