Actually rape or no?

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I had an experience with a man who was almost 20 years older than me. I grew up in a Christian cult community extremely sheltered and didn't even know what sex was till I saw dogs mating at 20 years old. I was raised where the "adults" are right and not to be questioned. 
  Shortly after I realized what sex was in the animal world, I was talking with this man I thought of as an uncle. He knew I was extremely naive and and kept talking about us having sex. I still didn't understand it but knew it was "bad" so I said no multiple times and he'd leave it at that. Once when we were alone he started feeling me up and he'd stop for a minute whenever I said no and then go back to it. Eventually he got farther and farther and even though I was obviously uncomfortable I stopped repeating no and he ran with it.
  Is it considered consent since I stopped saying no and let him do whatever he wanted? I still deal with depression and fear whenever I think about it.

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DUDE IF YOU KNOW THIS GUY YOU CAN GET BACK AT HIM FOR SEXUAL HARASSMENT!!! RECOMMEND IT

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If you say no and they proceed to do whatever they are doing then that is rape, you should never have to say no multiple times, it's your body your choice.

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That is NOT consent. Yes, it was rape. He absolutely took advantage of you. I'm so sorry that you have to dea with that. :( If you ever need to talk, let me know. I can give you my email if you ever need to vent. *hugs*

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No.  I would consider that rape.  He didn't ask you straight out if his actions were okay with you. Therefore he took advantage of you being naive and got what he wanted.  You let him do as he pleased out of fear and he took advantage of that fear and turned it into his power over you.  Therefore it was rape.

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one no was enough. he took advantage of you.

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No means No...so,yes sexual harassment and rape!!

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Just because you're not saying no doesn't mean you're saying yes. Especially if you had already said no multiple times before.

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He should've stopped at the first no. The new legal rule on sex is not only the presence of no but the absence of yes. If you didn't say yes it's rape

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Sweetheart you never said yes. He took advantage. If you said no and he continued it was rape. I was raped when I was 15 and it was a very difficult thing to get passed but it will get better. I know this is going to seem odd but I think it would be beneficial for you to talk to other women about it and try to become some what comfortable with human sexual nature. Some men can be awful and take advantage but others can be kind and loving. Never stop saying no. The right kind of man will listen and kick the ones that don't respect no to the cerb. Self empowerment will really help you get through the depression. Stay strong girl!

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If the last thing you said was no then you did not consent!

Actually rape or no?

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