How often does married couple in 30s have sex?

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I love my husband I believe he does too. We have been married for last 4 years, have a 2 years old boy. But I'm not really satisfied with my sex life. My husband takes an initiative for it. At first I took all the initiatives to start .. But now a days I feel emotional like why does it always have to be me? We have sex once a month with my approach. I feel the urge very often but it hurts my ego to start it always.. Sometimes I wonder is he just not into me anymore?? 
Secondly he's ALWAYS done before me! Its like even before I get properly wet! I'm just hopeless ! Any suggestions ladies??

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You are not the only one. I'm going through the exact same thing. I hope you can find something that works. I don't think it's that he doesn't love you, work and every day shit can really play a big part in it. Good luck.

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I understand. I'm 32 and seem to come more in tune with want I want from my spouse. Communication is key. Have a sit down when you both have time and express to him how you feel and those things you want or even want to change. Working can Def get in the way of intimacy but being married it's very vital for the survival of a healthy relationship. You both MUST find time and even that spark once more in order to keep things afloat. Get creative. Don't let ego dictate your wants. It should be both ways as far as expression though. I get it. Let him know that when the time is found for you too that he need to take into consideration that the object is to enjoy the moment and not rush thru it. Tell him you would like for him to take his time which will allow you time to warm up a bit. Foreplay is important. Men think that you can put a pie in the oven without warming it up. Doesn't happen that way. I pray you both are able to conquer this obstacle so you both may continue to enjoy a healthy marriage. Good luck.

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My husband and I have been together 10 years and married for almost 7. We have sex if not everyday at least every other day. No matter how tired we are we always make time for each other.

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We have extremely busy hectic lives and sometimes we see each other in passing however we have sex almost daily. You can't let that get behind. It keeps us close and something I truly enjoy.

How often does married couple in 30s have sex?

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