Upset

Idk I just kinda wanted to vent a lil. My friends mom who is like a mother to me told me today I don't look pregnant, I just look fat. Which I am fat but I've actually lost weight and it really upset me when she said that. I've had people tell me I look pregnant, even my own mother said she thinks its obvious now. I know I shouldn't let it bother me but it really does :(