How'd you do it ? How did you leave ?

Question

I'm currently in a a toxic relationship. The guy has potietenial but we've been working on things for 3 years now. He had made be look stop and cheated on me a few times. The trust is not there. And he doesn't treat me like I should. I however stick around because I do love him and he is a great person but he just doesn't know what he wants and I am SICK of it. I'm sick of being treated like his side bitch or like he doesn't love me. I know I should leave, however I don't because I keep thinking he is going to change. I think it's time for me to call it an end but I'm emotionally attached, idk what to do, how to break up with me. I haven't dealt with a break up in forever and I remember it being terrible. 
Anyways ladies, has anyone been in a toxic relationship where they left because they knew they deserved better ? Was it hard ? How are things today ? Tell me your stories. I need some sort of support 😩

For anyone who will say just leave. I've tired it's easier said than done

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I was in a terrible relationship he was controlling and manipulative the first time I tried to leave him he attempted suicide.

I had to finesse so hard just to get him medical attention he would have died. he constantly went back and forth between me and his ex. and fed me countless empty promises and so much more.

I was pathetic and broken hearted.

but one day instead of worrying what or who he was doing. I taught myself different to do my nails and bought all these beauty products then I learned to do my hair.

after a while I started to attract other guys but I was still in love with my ex. I never cheated on him. even tho I could have.

when he found out other guys were interested in me he flipped. I spent countless nights begging him to believe me that I wasn't sneaking around on him. he would break up with me then call me an hour later saying he loved me and I could talk to who I wanted. (manipulation) we did this for a month.

then one day I realized I just wanted to spend time with myself I didn't wanna argue with him anymore he didn't even trust me and he was the cheater. so the next time he broke up with me. I just said ok. when he called back asking to get back together I told him no. I didnt want to. he thought it was because of other guys. but it was because I was content being by myself again.

after we broke up. I went out with girlfriends he went psycho on me and logged into my social media accounts to get the number of a guy I was texting because he thought I was having sex with him lol. he begged this guy to call him and give me the phone (we weren't even together) I finally called him and he was sobbing on the phone it was so heartbreaking to hear. but I remembered all the times I called him crying and he treated me like shit. cont.

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part two and after all that. I still feel bad because I wasn't there for him to help him through his heartbreak. even though he broke my heart so many times.

long story long I couldn't be happier now. there is so much more to this story but the point is I came out strong and you can too.

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Talk to your family or a counsellor, police if you want to. Don't be afraid to ask for help. You need to leave ASAP

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I was in a very toxic relationship, I couldn't find it in me to leave. We were together for over a year on and off, he was abusive and tempermental and he would be sexually abusive, it ended with us both in mental hospitals, I turned to drugs and alcohol for a long time and my parents had to threaten to put a restraining order against him because I almost killed myself. After going to the hospital and overcoming addiction I am so much better. I'm still learning to love myself but I wake up everyday now to a husband and daughter who I love, I could do it you can too, don't give up yourself so fast

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you literally have to fall in love with yourself and be enough for you.

become infatuated with you and pick up hobbies. and do things that make you look and feel better.

How'd you do it ? How did you leave ?

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