What question do you hate being asked?

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This is my 3rd pregnancy and 4th child.  We have an 11 year old son and 7 year old boy/girl twins.  When people see that I'm pregnant they always ask "was it planned or an accident?"  They think I'm nuts for saying we planned this.  It's so aggravating!

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Before finding out, "do you want a boy or a girl?" It doesn't really matter, we go into pregnancy knowing it could go either way and either way I'll be happy. And "are you excited?" Of course I'm excited but I'm somewhat reserved and not the type of person to act super excited on the outside.

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I bet it is! I hate being asked "why you walking like that?" ..because it feels like my vagina bout to hit the floor! ..my response

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"Is your husband just thrilled about finally getting a boy?" 
I can't even begin to explain how angry this makes me.
1. It is almost always asked in front of my six and four year old daughters. Way to buy into the absurdity that they are "less than" because they are female. 
2. Fuck you and your gender bias. 
3. The shape of our children's genitals has absolutely no bearing on how much we love them. 
4. Why is it socially acceptable for you to even have an opinion on the sex of our child. GTFO.

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How are you feeling? .. They always looked surprised when I say great!!

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"don't you know what causes that?!"

This is our third and we already have a boy and a girl. People even told me when we announced that we were having a girl the last time that we can be done now since we've got one of each. 😒

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They must be asking since your youngest are 7. But that's a really rude question to ask someone!!

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"Will you try for a girl next time?" After telling them we are expecting a second boy. It's always the very first question that comes after saying it's another boy. Always.

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Not a question, but before we found out we are having a second girl, I had an in-law state 'I really hope it's a boy for your (older) daughter's sake.... She won't be able to handle a little sister as well....'  Rude. And we could not be more thrilled to be expecting a baby sis!! Just don't get why people say things like that.

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I get that all the time!!!! Ugh

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My husband and I are separated and this happened since becoming pregnant. People keep asking if it was planned or not. I mean are they implying if it wasn't planned that my husband is excused from being a total jerk and cheating on me? Like that's normal for a surprise pregnancy? This was VERY planned and I hate that question especially when it's asked after they hear about us splitting up.

What question do you hate being asked?

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