2016 people!!!! Who cares...

I am white And Mexican and I am dating a black man. My parents don't believe in dating out of your race. It causes problems in my family if I share with them about my interracial relationship. So I don't talk about it and leave it unknown, I want to get married to my boyfriend and have kids. I am nearly 30 years old, and I'm torn ?!? This is the 21st century and that's life-- I feel they just need to get over it !