Husband trouble

Is anyone else out there experiencing a lack of understanding from their husband, fiancé, boyfriend, SO, etc? I don't feel like getting intimate (having sex) I force myself to so he doesn't feel bad & ignored. Also I'm always tired. He thinks I'm too moody or lazy. I wish that he'd help more around the house. He does his usual chores, but I'm so behind in housework that I'm becoming overwhelmed. I'm busy with work & other responsibilities so by the time I'm done I'm too tired to do anything.