Maybe i'm just insensitive

So this morning at 3 or 4 AM my husband was on his way to work, stopped at the gas station, and then he got into his car and a guy with a gun started running towards him. He drove off and is fine. He didn't call the cops which I mean I would have but whatever he was probably in shock. First off I find this out via facebook. He makes some long post about it and all these people ask if he's ok. He never called or texted me. I hate when people post stuff like that on facebook basically to gain attention and sympathy when he should of called his wife. Idk just my opinion. Then all day he has been depressed saying "what if I had died?? What if my daughter was with me and got shot?" I understand the stressing over the what ifs but fact is that didn't happen and he's ok and you would think he would be happy everything turned out ok. I have tried comforting him all day and nothing works. He has been moping around and acting like someone died all day. It's getting on my nerves. Am I being insensitive? Lmao I mean idk I probably am but i've had something similar happen to me years ago and I was in shock for maybe an hour or 2 but I didn't become depressed over it all day and want babied by everyone. I am also 9 weeks preggo so maybe that's another reason i'm being moody idk. Opinions?