What do I do?

So I was talking to my boyfriend last night on the phone and it sounded like he was trying to break up with me. He was saying he needs to find who he is and doesn't want to drag me down with him. And said that I was right that something changed 2 weeks ago he said he wasn't feeling the spark. I said during hardships in a relationship you go through them together it's what makes you stronger. And said he wants to talk more today when I get off work in person. Idk what to do. His friend and his friends wife were telling me that one day he would say he's soo happy and that I may be the one he settles down with then the next he isn't and so on and it's pissing them off. Any opinions.