Why women cheat: by request

Women cheat when they start drifting from the dock, I'll call it.

They start noticing other men noticing them. Other men paying them compliments, listening to them when they talk, remembering special things about them, etc.

It's called flirting. Lol.

When her man isn't cutting it in the "make me feel like a goddess" department, the "I'm the only girl in the room," feeling, and another man starts to, that's when women cheat.

Also, they may cheat for revenge. They may cheat bc sex is mundane, 2 minutes, and passion-less, and the other guy is working hard to get her.

They may justify cheating if their guy is into porn, for instance.

Now, I realize the onslaught of comments about to follow my post, regarding porn being cheating or not, etc, but that's not the point. Several of us, me included, feel like it is, bc when you're getting off to another woman, be it on film, paper, or in person, it feels like cheating. (This does not apply to those of you in open relationships.)

How to keep a woman faithful?

1. Make her feel like a goddess. To the point you could quote Bruno Mars Nothin On You, and mean it. This is especially true for us moms who may be dealing with work, or home, children, etc and need to feel like a woman.

2. When you're with her, do not notice other women. Do not comment that they're hot, etc. Pay attention to her. Don't check out the waitress' ass when you're out to dinner.

3. Stay off your phone. Be in the moment. Listen when she speaks. Let her vent. If she starts whining about someone being rude to her at work, for instance, listen. Don't offer a solution unless she asks for one. Women already know what the solution is, we just need to bitch about it. Men aren't often like that, so it's difficult to relate.

4. Chivalry. It goes a looooonnnnggg way.

5. Find out what her love language is and do it every day. There are 5: Gifts, Affection, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Acts of Service. We often show love how we feel loved but not always.

6. Tell her she's beautiful. Or smart. Or both. If you don't, someone else will.

7. Reassure her of your undying love and faithfulness whenever she needs it, and whenever you can, and mean it.

8. Communicate. Less is not always more. Women talk through all kinds of details and frustrations, analogies, examples, often before they even realize what they need to say.

9. Be passionate in bed :)

Of course, if there's anything else any of you ladies would like to interject, please do. This is from my own personal experience. I've been the cheater, I've been the cheated on, and I've been the other woman. None was fun, nor worth it, and I've worked hard at finally having an honest committed relationship.