Okay this is sort of a long story so please bare with me. About 7 months ago I met this guy through mutual friends. Roughly two weeks after, we were drinking and I gave him my virginity. I never planned for it to happen like that. I was saving myself for "the one". Id been single for 3 years before that and had never done anything sexual with a guy before except kiss. Well anyways he told me from the get that he wasn't looking for a relationship and that it was only just about sex. It was heard, understood, and acknowledged. Not knowing what to do with myself, after giving away something that meant everything to someone who saw it as nothing, I did what I could to keep him around. We became friends with benefits. He would only try to get a hold of me on the weekends, and half the time he'd be drunk. Well one night my friend and I got into a fight because she'd been drinking and wanted her keys. The cops were called. He tore us apart and helped me get away. While on the way back to his house he promised me, from here on out, that I was going to see a side of him I'd never seen before. And I think I did. He'd text me everyday, and talk to me for hours on the phone. Then one night he was blacked out drunk and said he was "catching feelings" for me. I confronted him in person the next day and all he could say was he didn't want a relationship. So I left. He texted me later that night and got me to come back over and stay. Nothing happened though. Then I get a text from him the next day saying that I'm not his type because I'm scared to put out. The same day he was arrested. This is his 3rd DUI in 3 years so he's going to be away for awhile. He had my cousin give me a message that he was going to text me and apologize right before all this happened and he wants me to write him. Should I wait for him? If that is what he's wanting. Please give me some good advise. I'm only 17 and would greatly appreciate any input on the situation. I'm desperate for help.