Did I make the right choice?!

Question

So about a week ago I broke up with my boyfriend because I couldn't do the distance anymore. I'm needy in the sense of wanting to see my SO more than one day every 3 weeks. Ever since I did it I wake up crying. I'm losing sleep, can't eat and I'm an emotional wreck. I'm really not sure what to do because I know I won't be happy if we get back together because I'll not see him again but at the same time I keep thinking.. Did I make the right choice by breaking up with him?

Answer

That's a question you need to answer yourself. This situation seems to be a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" issue for you. You're unhappy without him but you're unhappy when you're with him because you're without him.

Honestly, I've been there but it's hard to see what you're missing if you already never saw him. I think that you might just be hurting because you're officially "alone". But that just comes with any breakup. I think you need to find a new hobby to get into and focus on yourself so you can learn to be happy on your own again. The pain will go away in time

Answer

I am the same way but am afraid of that state of official loneliness. I used to see my LD boyfriend every weekend but the last couple of months it's only been every couple of week and FaceTime every couple of days. I've been thinking about breaking up and it sure seems like it'll happen some time soon, but I'm not ready to give up. I hope you work things out, this seems like an opportunity to explore and start fresh

Did I make the right choice?!

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