Why does he rather cuddle than have sex? (3 year relationship)

Question

My SO and I have been together for 3 years when we first got together we had sex anytime we could but lately all we have been doing is cuddling. I just don't get it? He loves me dearly. I just don't understand why he doesn't want to get it on?

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honestly some men just want to feel you & not in a sexual way all the time. I know it's weird but they have feelings too. this past weekend my husband & I had a "lovers weekend" something we do every couple months& just get busy & enjoy eachother. this time we only had sex twice, the rest of the time he just wanted to wrap his arms around me & not let go just layed on my chest. I don't take it in the wrong way, it just shows me another way my husband loves me, a way as him telling me it's not all about the sex sometimes I just want to enjoy you. but only way to know why your man is doing it is to simply ask him.

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Have you asked him?

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Guys are ruled by hormones just as much as we are. Y'all gotta be talking to each other and he might need a Dr visit just to cover his bases.

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Sometimes men are just too stressed or tired. Some men may even be feeling insecure about their body/appearance... We aren't the only ones who need to feel sexy to get in the mood! There could be so many reasons, but he obviously loves you and wants to be close to you, so I wouldn't worry!

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My husband is the same, I mean we still have sex just not as often, especially now that I'm pregnant. But he also works long hard hours and sometimes men just need to rest sweetheart(: don't take it personally, just enjoy having your man's arms wrapped around you!

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Unfortunately, we can't read his mind anymore than you can! Ask him(lovingly) what's up.

Why does he rather cuddle than have sex? (3 year relationship)

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