FTM unwanted advice!

I don't know about all the rest of you ladies but this being my first pregnancy I get so much unwanted advice and birth stories of how they did it. I'm soooooooo tired of hearing these. One thing that makes me mad is the fact I cannot have an epidural due to spinal problems and yet I still get the comments from people saying I should ask for it anyway so I'm not in pain. Like what the hell! I cannot have one and that doesn't bother me. I've known this before I got pregnant I prepared for it so why in the hell do you think I should get it anyways! And now I've made some family mad because I don't want anyone in the delivery room with me besides my husband. This is a very special and intimate thing to me and I don't need people sitting there staring at me while I'm going through contractions. The comment from this one is I will want someone besides him for support. Ummmmm noo he's the only one that I know is gonna be supportive and help me through the labor nobody else will. They will all just be sitting around staring at me and sharing their own birth stories which I don't care to hear a hundredth time. I'm just tired of all the negativity from other parents telling me Everytime we make a decision that I will change my mind. Nobody says anything to my husband they applaud him if he says it but I can say the same thing and get bombarded with advice and negativity and telling me what to do