Diaper bag!

Major rant here, so my husbands stepmom, wanted to buy us a coach diaper bag, I told her she didn't really have to do that just a normal diaper bag would be fine, (I'm not a coach person & the price was stupid expensive)   This was around Christmas time.  Well nothing has been said since then..last week she texted me and said she had ordered us one, one I'm having a boy so I don't think coach is really for boys, two I was trying to be nice by saying she didn't really have too, when in reality we didn't want one just didn't want to come out and say it.   Well my husband found a John Deere one, that matches everything else we have for the Baby, and he ordered it not knowing she had ordered the other one.  Now I'm stuck on which one to use bc I don't want to hurt either of their feelings.  My husbands was a third of the price hers was.   I just wish she would have asked again before she bought it.  I would have told her to buy something he could really use!  Okay rant over!