Would you let your husband go to the strip club?

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I'm 5 months pregnant and my husband wants to take his little brother to the strip club for his 18th birthday. He's a great husband but he has low testosterone so we don't really have sex anymore and that causes me to feel unattractive to him. I'm having a hard time with the strip club debate so just looking for some insight?

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Nope .. Hell no.. If he wanted to go to the strip club he shouldn't have gotten me pregnant!! And he shouldn't have put a ring on it! I respect Him not to go to a male one so he should respect me. He had enough time to play around in his younger years.. I trust my man but I think it is disrespectful for him to go watch girls shake their ass and tits for money.. But if both parties are okay with going then I see nothing wrong with that.. Tell him how you feel honey.. Would he be okay with you going to a male one?

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Well...he is a grown man and not my child so nobody is 'letting' anybody do anything. I trust he can make his own choices. I have nothing against strip clubs and would like to go with him but he finds them sleazy.

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I am ,personally, not okay with strip clubs. I think that it's innapropriate to gawk at mostly naked women and although I trust my husband not to get Lap dances , you never know. The only reason I would be ok my husband going to one is if like his brother was getting married and was going there for his bachelor party.

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The agreement is if he throws $50 at the strippers he has to give me $50. It makes him think twice about going because he has to spend twice as much to go. ☺️

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I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. He's your husband, and you should trust him. Strip clubs are basically a right of passage for kids turning 18. He's probably not doing it for himself.

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Only if we go together.

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Normally, I would say yes.  But given the situation you've described I say no.  It will make you insecure and cause problems.  I don't think it's appropriate for our husbands to be staring at naked women anyway, but especially when you already have issues.

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Wait he's only turning18? It may be that he's just curious about it since he probably has never been there because you have to be 18 to get in right? I wouldn't put too much stock in it. It's almost like a rite of passage for some men when they turn 18. However, If it turns into every week, I would start being concerned. He may even go and never return. He's probably just curious about it.

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I personally wouldn't let my husband go. I don't feel like strip clubs are for married people. But my husband hates strip clubs. He finds them disgusting. So I don't really have anything to worry about. But I would tell my husband to find something else to do for his brothers birthday.

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I wouldn't care. My husband comes home to me every night, not a stripper. 
Honestly I'd go with him even, just for fun. It's like taboo.. (I mean me, personally. Not saying to go for the birthday lol)

Would you let your husband go to the strip club?

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