Parents vs Guy

I'm almost 18, I've never had a boyfriend. I had a friend with benefits 2 months ago, which I told my mum about but I said that he was my boyfriend. We are in the same college so I told her I met him in there (I actually met him online but I knew she would have said no if I told her the truth)
I started talking to a guy around a month ago, the problem is that he lives around 1.5-2h away and he wants to come down this Tuesday to meet me. He told his parents about me, they are not really happy about it but they didn't tell him not to come see me. I kinda wanna tell my parents about him, but the problem is that my parents would never ever accept someone over the internet as they do not trust people that you meet online. They are just thinking about the possible risks and I know it's because they want me to be safe, but that doesn't mean everyone over the internet is a killer or a rapist. My dad would go mad as hell if he finds out, I actually do not have a really good relationship with him. If there are 2 says in a row without an argue between me and him over something then it's a miracle. My mum is more understanding but I know she would say no as well. I actually had a fight with her a few days ago and she said I'm hiding something from her. My parents are complicated as fuck and actually make me feel like shit most of the time. I respect and love them, and I don't wanna dissapoint or lie to them, but I also really like this guy and I know they'd say no straight away if I told them.
Can someone give me an advice, please? 

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