Masturbating

So I know most women are totally comfortable masturbating and enjoy themselves however I struggle. I don't get any enjoyment out of it and don't know HOW to enjoy it rather then concentrating on what I'm doing. My husband is a super sexual person and would like me to masturbate when he's not home. I need tips on how to get out of my own head and just enjoy how it feels. Can you ladies weigh in and help me out? Thanks.