My father & Boyfriend

My dad has become extremely nosey when it comes to my phone lately. He constantly asks me who i am talking to what app am i on ect.

He does not pay my phone bill

I am 22 and only living with him because i had no other option other than my car.

My parents have been separated/divorced for about five years now.

My boyfriend whom also lives with me at my father's, just recently got a phone. He was fine with me checking it in the mornings when he first got it because he sleeps late and is currently looking for another p/t job so i made sure he hadnt missed a call from a potential interview. He now tells me not to touch his phone without his permission but if he wants he can touch mine and be on mine all he wants. He is also really nosey about my phone lately.

He doesnt pay my phone bill. I dont pay his.

Also

He(bf) keeps telling me that im acting like im his mother. Not in what i do but i guess in the way i word things? Idk but seriously.

Wtf are up with these two?