Am I being rude ? Sorry it's a bit long too

Question

Pls don't judge I'm a FTM & just want the best for me & baby . So me & my partner had argument the other night about our child & his friends. His best mates girlfriend is pregnant to she's due a month before me and he wants the kids to grow up to be best friends.

He also wants them at the hospital when we have had a child but I don't feel like they have the right to be there when I just want family. His friends don't like me because they have this big idea I'm using my partner for his money & that I actually don't love him & once I've had this baby I'm guna ditch him .

I don't feel comfortable bringing my child up around those certain people , especially when they are saying lots of pathetic stuff about me . My partner said he would take our child to see them without me, I don't trust them around my child & don't want them around my baby without me being present . What do you ladies reckon am I being a complete bitch ?

Answer

Sounds like you have a bigger issue - your husband disrespecting your boundaries. You're his wife first, and it makes me sad to read that he's more concerned about his friends than his wife's needs. You're not being unreasonable.

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Nope. Stand your ground. It's ultimately your choice who comes to see you in the hospital by the way.

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Hell noo stand your ground. Dont allow your child to be around people who dislike/ talk crap about you. Your husband should respect you and know better not to take the baby there!

Am I being rude ? Sorry it's a bit long too

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