2 years ago almost three my sil gave birth to twin girls when she was 26 weeks pregnant. There very lucky to be alive. I love these girls to death! But because of them being so early they are treated like queen bees. They get what they want. They can do what ever they want. I get the almost died but come on. Lets let them grow up. I ha e a 5 year old. Hes all boy. Loves to wrestle and be rough. Sometimes hes gets a little to rough with the twins. But no one other then my self will sit him down and try to explain to him hes gotta be gentle with them. Everyone, my husband, fil, bils, everyone is rough with my son. So he sees it as something thats ok to do. But the min he does something to the girls, even just touches them as he walks by he gets jumped. By everyone! He seriously can not do anything when these girls are around!! He gets treated like s**t. And then the in laws will talk about how he has no respect. And hes a baby and needs to get off my tit. Hes not gonna make it threw school. My fil is always saying he needs a dress. Will for one he dont need a dress. Maybe if he was treated better he wouldnt cry to get away from you! Second he respects the people that respect him. And third he wouldnt want me all the time if i wasnt the only one that showed him he is loved!! I feel so bad for my child to be around these people! He loves them but he cant get that love back. And no keeping him aways isnt an option right now. Its not till we can move out of state. ( hate on that if you want. Its a complicated thing) sorry for it to be so long. I needed to vent and i have no one to talk to or anything.