Other half want get up to help?

Anyone else have this problem ? 
At the beginning he was brilliant he would get up and help with night feeds/ changes without any fuss,  but now he seems to always kick off.
And the odd time he has got up to help  I've even woke to him telling little man to shut up and behave which hurt me as crying is the only way little man can communicate, .
Does anyone else have this problem?