Our lives aren't over!!!!!

Why is it that everyone says our live are going to be over when we have the baby!! How is it that everyone just assumes our live are just going to stop. Yeah so we can't party and do drugs.. big fricken deal. I don't care. I don't do drugs to begin with. So we can't go out and party all the time.. who cares I never did that begin with.. I didn't have friends and I don't like people!!! Lol .. so what's left really?? What's going to stop my life??? Nothing. I wanted this baby. Why do people say our lives are going be over!!??? I can't wait to see my baby. I'm ready for mom and dad life. What's the big deal!!