Can We Be Real Here?

Does anyone else get REALLY annoyed with having to wade through all the silly discussions/posts to find the threads you're looking for? Faint lines in announcement threads, TTC posts in threads for women who are already pregnant, etc. doesn't anyone think about how that might affect the women there for the RIGHT reasons?

I get so frustrated with all the faint line photos posted EVERYWHERE, even in discussions that have NOTHING to do with TTC/faint lines, etc. There is an entire tab dedicated to faint line pregnancy tests - GO THERE! And, by the way, it doesn't matter if the line is faint, or if it is dark, 14-pt font, and in flashing neon. If it's positive, it's positive. If you can't see a line at all, get a digital test. If it's really that important to you, spring for the more expensive test, or ask a doctor.

I don't understand at all why TTC posts would be in pregnancy threads, or visa-versa. When I was TTC it HURT to see pregnancy posts in the TTC thread because I was suffering from infertility and multiple miscarriages. The LAST thing I wanted to see in a TTC discussion was someone else's BFP. 

Early-term mama's have a TON of concerns and anxieties of their own, ESPECIALLY those of us who struggled with child loss or infertility in the past. We don't need someone clogging up discussions dedicated to our unique situation with posts about TTC, faint line, etc... Furthermore, there really should be a thread dedicated solely to support for child loss. 

This community (I thought) was a place for women in all stages of conception/pregnancy to go for support. The support is more effective when women can share honestly, but when the discussions and threads can be kept on-topic. You don't know how posting off-topic might affect another person. Example: When the discussion has to do with mothers who have suffered child loss who are now pregnant and nervous, it might not be so considerate of Fertile Myrtle to get in that discussion and start telling everyone how silly they are for worrying, "because I have had four babies and had that symptom every time with no problems." Yeah, well maybe someone in that group has had four miscarriages following that same symptom. 

I've seen women jump all over a mama who is just being honest and raw, telling her truth, but THAT shouldn't be against the rules. This posting stuff in the wrong thread on purpose and saying/doing things that are inconsiderate should be against the rules!  I guess my point is, THINK about what and where you are posting. 

Sorry if this offends anyone. I'm just a first trimester (following child loss) mama who is scared to death, ultra sensitive, and tired of feeling run over by inconsiderate people.