Disrespectful boyfriend.

So today we were supposed to go out for dinner together. I'm ready and he's chucking all my stuff around the room because 'it's a mess' when there's only a few bits on the floor which I was about to put away, and he's slamming hangers in his wardrobe and stuff because he can't find a top. It kinda hurt my feelings because we were going on a date night which we do about once a month and he's ruined it by being aggressive. He's usually nice but I don't know what's came over him today. Would you be upset?