My bfs mom is too judge mental

Anyways my bfs mother is always judging how I look. She always asks me these questions about why I look all hash all the time, why I sometimes looked buckwheat (ugly) or looked Asian as a child. May I put it out there that I'm Asian Samoan so yes when I don't have make up on I do look hobo in my eyes and when I put make up on I look Asian and pretty. But it just hurts for her to put it out there Infront some people and make me feel uncomfortable. I noticed she doesn't take pictures with me as much if I don't have my hair straightened or no make up on. Whenever we go out an I just put my hair up she says "howcome you didn't do your hair?" Am I over reacting??????