Gahh!!! Venting like a crazy lady

Why do the guys think that once they get off work that yeah thats it, like no i would like a break too ( i have a one year old and im 37 wks & 6 days) i cant even take it we both wake up in the morning but he never gets our son i always have to then give him a bath brush his teeth dress him go downstairs make breakfast for them both then clean up the mess, then we relax until he goes to work, i take care of my son all day and do whatever needs to be done thru the day, pick up my husband from work come home clean the house alittle cook dinner we eat then i clean everything while still deal with my whinning child and constantly getting him out the kitchen while cooking....its like my husband can never watch him or keep him away from me when i need him too...then clean up the house again and put him to sleep. And i occasionally ask my husband for a massage after and he does sometimes or his excuse is i work all day im tired...uhhh excuse me you work 6 hrs delivering liquor i understand thats stressful but im 9 mnths pregnant losing my fucking mind here!!! Jesus shit man is anyone else dealing with this i feel like i do all the duties and child caring while all he does is play with him for an hr or so before bedtime 😡😡😡😡😡