Lazy husband

 Told my husband three days ago that we would be cleaning our room and organizing everything so this morning i wake up and told him in half an hour we will be cleaning he rudly tells me to make him coffee or hes not doing anything. We have been cleaning since 1 and he hasnt done anything other then make excuzes to go for smokes -_-   Getting ready to snap very grumpy with hm atm.  I cant understand why he is being so god damn rude today. Expects me to be nice when hes being rude and annoying. Well rants over anyone have any advice on how i can relax befor i snap i get very uneasy when theres clutter