Problems down their 😉

My boyfriend loves to finger me, but lately I've been having weird happenings with myself down there. A few days ago I was sure I had a yeast infection because of the cottage cheese like stuff constantly flowing out of me and the itchiness, but a day or two later it stopped coming out and the hood around my clit looked like a strawberry with all the weird symmetrical spots. On the inside of my bag it was all red and the little flesh flabs on the inside were thin, red, and incredibly itchy. We're both virgins of pretty much everything (I kissed someone once and had some over the clothes "fingering" but he hadn't even kissed a girl before me), but we have done fingering and I've given him the ol' succ (don't mind my euphism here). That leads me to doubt I have any STDs or serious stuff like that to see the doctor about. I'm 17, and my dad would kill me if I asked to go to the lady doctor about these issues even though I'm on birth control (you would think he'd be okay with me having sex even if I haven't), so I want to try and wait this out, but my boyfriend will probably get hella freaked out if I told him the real reason why he can't go down there haha. Hopefully it goes away within a week or two because I just got my wisdom teeth removed, so he knows we can't do anything before that's all healed up. I'm still really freaked out and nervous.