It's amazing how people can change
I would like to share my story to show other women that people are capable to change and it does get better. Last May my fiancé who was my boyfriend at the time was going through a rough patch in his life. I lost my virginity to him and mind you he was and is the only man I've ever dated and slept with and to me it was still new the whole sex thing unlike him whose had experience. Anyways on a Friday night last May we had sex we did the deed and snuggled for a bit. After he drove me home I don't remember exactly how the conversation came about but we were on the topic of getting pregnant and abortion. I am 100% against abortion at the time he wasn't. Anyways he told me in these exact words "if you got pregnant I would bring you to get an abortion" my heart sank how can the person who claims to love you say something so cold. Let's just say I freaked out and gave him a piece of my mind I walked straight out of his car and ran to my room to cry I sobbed. He apologized saying it was stupid to say. But he didn't want kids ever. But if something happened we would get through it together. I forgave him let it go and didn't bring it up again since I didn't want a child anytime soon anyways. Fast forward to December the 21st I took a pregnancy test and guess what positive. I was happy shocked but I smiled and touched my belly. I loved my innocent baby and I was scared to tell my boyfriend because I didn't know what reaction I was going to get. But I was willing to have my child with or without him. I told him that night and you know what that man who said those words to me that night was so happy. And that same man has been to every appointment every ultrasound watching his baby grow. That man who "never wanted kids" kisses my belly and talks to our son saying "hey buddy I love you" and rubs my tummy. He tells me everyday how much he loves us both and our baby is his little ray of sunshine after the storm. He's over the moon and has apologized to me numerous times about that awful night and comments. People are capable to change. Now I'm 26 weeks and 5 days with our son. He is the best thing that has ever happened to us. And this baby changed his father and made him a better man.
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