Ouchhh!

My husband was talking to his boss about his appointment to get his sperm count. His boss told him what his wife and him went through before their 4 kids. And ouch! Ouch for my husband and ouch for me! Needles where they don't belong. ?? I'm hoping it's a quick Or simple fix. For those whose been through it, is it as bad as it sounds or was it a simple fix for you?