About my last post .

My mom is throwing me a baby shower . She's putting up all the money for it because im unable to work due to being extremely high risk . The hall she rented for was originally $2200 because of the day its falls on which is a Saturday ( known for parties ) but after talking to the owner she worked it down to $500 with some restrictions . No more than 60 people . And it has to end before 5:30 pm . And a $500 damage control deposit . Which means any damages done will result in not getting the deposit back plus extra fees if the damage is more than the deposit . I have family and friends that has small children and seeing that I personally know these people and their kids I know that their kids dont listen . And i have young family members with more than 3-5 kids a piece . Which will take up more seats . My twin and brother has no children and this will be my first so if someone else's child damage something it wouldn't be fair to my mom to have to pay for it which is why I said no kids . And plus when asked if they have read the entire invitation 97% of them said no so they didnt see the bottom where it said "No Children Please" at the bottom . Yes its a celebration to welcome my son but I still have to look out for my mom . And because it is ONLY going to be 60 chairs which means space is limited not RSVPing makes it worst because people love to bring extra people with them and its not fair to give a seat to a person that haven't RSVPed and not have seats for people who have done what they were suppose to do ( which is also on the invitation ) . 

Im not the type of person to beat around the bush and 99.7% of the people in my life knows that and truth be told being nice about things nowadays just dont cut it anymore .