Grandparents...rant.. i need help

KyeV💕
My husband, myself and our almost 2 month old daughter live in the apartment in hubbys parents house. Is it normal for my mother and father in law to take my baby upstairs for "grandma and grandpa time" Every. Single. Day. Without fail. For 2 month now. I feel like its unnessecary and they take advantage, yes shes right here in the same house... but it doesnt have to be an every day thing.. i mean there may have been 2 or 3 days she didnt go up because she was sound asleep when they came down, they were out, we were out, etc. But every day they come down and fenagle their way into taking her up by either blaming it on the other "oh grandpa sent me down he misses her" then here comes grandpa into our apt "what r u doing down here?" "Were gonna take her just for a new mins... we'll put her to sleep.. we'll feed her..." aand she ends up upstairs. Its overwhelming hearing her if she crys up there and when i go up they basically say "ohhh its ok we got her its ok go do what you need to do". What i need to do is take care of my baby..please.. Is it wrong of me to not want to be bothered every single day??!! We've joked around and said them jeeze can ya go a day... and joking that they are 'baby snatchers' and obsessed and whatnot..... I dont know how to tell them to back off without being mean or rude and causing tension! Im gonna lose it!! Has anyone else ever dealt with this??? Opinons and advice please!!

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